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lordofduct - Jul 15, 2003 |
Ammut | Jul 15, 2003 | |||
Who cares if hes mad at you, you've got 2 girls to sleep with dammit
---Ammut |
y2kzorak | Jul 15, 2003 | ||||
I'll never understand the whole "friends with benefits" concept. For your friend to be angry at you says (to me) that his girlfriend/whatever was more to him than a "friend." Either that or he's reacting territorially... I donno. In general, most people don't like to see their recent ex-whatever sleeping around with someone else so soon after the relationship ends. But "friends with benefits" really isn't a traditional relationship, and I don't understand the psyche behind it. The same rules of break-up etiquette may not apply. All I know is I would never be able to put so little emotional attachment to sex... In any case, you've just made your life more complicated than necessary. Apologize up the wazoo, but don't expect him to be happy with you for a while. In the end, I hope you can reconcile your friendship. And if he's over it already.... Well, I guess it's indicative of how differently men and women (such as myself) view relationships. |
Jurai | Jul 16, 2003 | ||||
you girlfriend doesnt care, and guess what, neither do i |
racketboy | Jul 16, 2003 | |||
to answer your question, yes, I would (at least want to) kill you :flamethrower: |
Myname | Jul 16, 2003 | |||
I can't help but think that the whole way you view relationships (friend or otherwise) needs a bit of an evaluation, but maybe that's just me. |
racketboy | Jul 16, 2003 | ||||
I was thinking the same thing but didn't know the best way to word it |
Tagrineth | Jul 16, 2003 | |||
I dunno, I haven't had a boyfriend in a while now and I'm still a virgin... But I'd tend to agree with y2kzorak. |
Nadius | Jul 16, 2003 | |||
As Dr. Phil might say,... "You don't need stain-resistant pants to take a big swim in Lake Jackass. " |
lordofduct | Jul 16, 2003 | |||
jurai your blunt resistance to ever giving an f are the comments i love the most in this place. and thanks for everyones input, i like seeing how everyone views relationships and sex and how much they connect the too. personally i just find relationships ruin sex and vice versa, since me and christine stopped dating we just seem to get along a hell of alot better and sex doesnt feel like a chore as much. Just to clarify WHY i choose friends with benefits. I should just stop expecting my friends to have the same morals as me. sammy is the odd one out, hes the only one who doesnt like friends with benefits... because (as y2kzorak said) hes territorial. oh and MyName, thats what this is, an inpersonal evaluation of the relationship. :smiles all the way home while reflecting on how well i use improper english: |
Jurai | Jul 16, 2003 | ||||
i always thought you were a guy, my bad |
joe81 | Jul 16, 2003 | |||
if i was your friend yes i would kick your ass but then eventually feel bad that i did and see if we could be friends again but ya i would have kicked your ass. but dont mind my opinion i suffer from rage disorders |
Myname | Jul 16, 2003 | ||||
Well, fair play to you then I'm sounding bizarrely puritanical here, so I'll be quiet. |
racketboy | Jul 16, 2003 | ||||
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